Desire versus experience

Why we move in a direction and aim for results despite obstacles, other people opinion and even unsolicited feedback?

One of the reasons is fear and this motivates us to try, no matter what. This is a good reason if we learn from experiences, and when we encounter same situation change the approach. Is this true for you, think about your last failure, how was it, what was the lesson there?

Today is a special one, celebration time, in my reality three close friends are counting years since they said yes for marriage. I would say double digits and if you see this from a learning experience with ups and downs, you can relate and feel the intensity.

The problem occurs when you have a burning desire without the foundation of failures and lessons, ignore the signals and repeat the same approach that brings you pain. Some help comes always from using your intuition, however delusional messages may override this and make you replicate the pain, shipping is out of discussion.

Recently I saw the genius player Marius Mihalache and felt the difference.